Six steps from first hello to meeting safely

Nothing here is left to chance. Every stage has a rule behind it, and every rule exists to protect both people.

  1. 01

    Create your profile

    Tell us who you are looking for and what you actually want. The Serious Relationship Passport asks the questions people usually avoid.

  2. 02

    Verify who you are

    Thai members verify a national ID or passport plus a face check. International members verify a passport plus a face check. A short video introduction adds another layer of trust.

  3. 03

    Match on intentions

    Discovery is built from who you want to meet, your relationship goals, your preferences and profile visibility rules — not from endless swiping.

  4. 04

    Talk properly

    Translation and cultural context help both sides. Once you are matched, text chat is unlimited while your membership is active — never charged per message.

  5. 05

    Exchange contacts by consent

    When every safety condition is met, either of you can request contact details. Both people choose exactly one channel to share, or choose Not Now.

  6. 06

    Meet safely

    The Safe Date Planner keeps the first meeting in a public place, lets you share the plan with someone you trust, and checks in on you afterwards.

Contact exchange conditions

All of these must be true. Meeting them does not reveal anything — it only allows a mutual request. This can never be bought.

  • Both members are 18 or older

    Age is confirmed during onboarding and verification.

  • Both members are identity and face verified

    Foreign-side members verify passport plus face.

  • You are mutually matched

    Both sides accepted the connection.

  • At least 7 days of interaction

    Measured from the first two-way message.

  • At least 20 two-way messages

    Both people must have contributed.

  • No active scam or risk flag

    Open safety cases put contact exchange on hold.

Who pays, who verifies

Thai members

Free membership

Verification: national ID or passport, face / liveness

International members

Paid membership for full access

Verification: passport, face / liveness

The journey

  1. Match
  2. Chat
  3. Video
  4. Contact Exchange
  5. Plan a Date
  6. Meet Safely
Create your profile